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I’m guessing some folks may be wondering where I’ve been. Could it be a slow June or has Rob just forgotten to post on the blog. Neither in fact. It all started with the Jubilee and half term and a family trip to Center Parcs and 4 weddings in 8 days. So I’ve been neither slow nor forgetful…just flat out, trying to stay above water.

So lets start with Simon and Alex. Civil Partnerships have always been a favourite of mine. So far, I’ve done 4 with an even split down the gender profile. There seems to be something a bit magical about them. Maybe its the fact that everyone there really wants to be there. There just a vibe that I get and this was no exception. I knew from the moment I met S&A that things were going be fantastic. The planning, the vision…all of it pointed to something exceptional. I wasn’t wrong. Wow. What a day. I was so pleased to be there. Every minute of it. From the 9 Bridemaids all in a rainbow, to the choreographed entrance (how could they not with Alex being a former cruise ship dancer), the elaborately lit main hall and the video messages.

There will be a few more on my Facebook Business page. In fact, there’s been some there for a few weeks now. But I’ve added to it as well the ones below. So have a gander at the images below and then at the end follow the link to Facebook for more.

(BTW, I was without Darren for this wedding, but I did have the image making talents of Yorkshire Wedding Photographer, James Stewart. Now…I think that all of the images below are mine. I know for sure that everything up to the speeches are. Once we get there its all a blur with both of us moving around often shooting similar people at different times. There, I lose it. So he may well get some credit as well).

wedding photographer eltham palace 001 Alex and Simons Civil Partnership at Eltham PalaceDon’t adjust your sets…I spent the first hour shooting women!

wedding photographer eltham palace 002 Alex and Simons Civil Partnership at Eltham PalaceSweet sights in the rear view :)

wedding photographer eltham palace 003 Alex and Simons Civil Partnership at Eltham PalaceGirls of all ages

wedding photographer eltham palace 047 Alex and Simons Civil Partnership at Eltham PalaceWindy

wedding photographer eltham palace 004 Alex and Simons Civil Partnership at Eltham PalaceFinally…they arrive!

wedding photographer eltham palace 005 Alex and Simons Civil Partnership at Eltham Palace2 horseman of the apocalypse and a country and western singer (my own take on old Jonny Carson joke)

wedding photographer eltham palace 006 Alex and Simons Civil Partnership at Eltham PalaceProving Alex really IS ‘down with the kids’

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wedding photographer eltham palace 008 Alex and Simons Civil Partnership at Eltham PalaceRehearsal…the time now is 2:35pm and the ceremony should have started at 2:30…

wedding photographer eltham palace 009 Alex and Simons Civil Partnership at Eltham PalaceTalk to the hand

wedding photographer eltham palace 010 Alex and Simons Civil Partnership at Eltham PalaceSHE’s BEHIND YOU!

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wedding photographer eltham palace 012 Alex and Simons Civil Partnership at Eltham PalaceAlternate lane traffic in the round room

wedding photographer eltham palace 013 Alex and Simons Civil Partnership at Eltham PalaceGauntlet of colour

wedding photographer eltham palace 014 Alex and Simons Civil Partnership at Eltham PalaceYour Song…the Moulin Rouge version!  Oh yes

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wedding photographer eltham palace 017 Alex and Simons Civil Partnership at Eltham PalaceJoleen, Joleen, Joleen, Joooleeen

wedding photographer eltham palace 018 Alex and Simons Civil Partnership at Eltham PalaceWhat happens in the hats, stays in the hats

wedding photographer eltham palace 019 Alex and Simons Civil Partnership at Eltham PalaceRainbow Pride

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wedding photographer eltham palace 030 Alex and Simons Civil Partnership at Eltham PalaceAt least his name wasn’t Matthew

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wedding photographer eltham palace 033 Alex and Simons Civil Partnership at Eltham PalaceContributing to easiest the best original one liner in speech history!

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wedding photographer eltham palace 039 Alex and Simons Civil Partnership at Eltham PalaceIts raining….really, I hadn’t noticed

wedding photographer eltham palace 040 Alex and Simons Civil Partnership at Eltham PalaceNow all I want is chocolate

wedding photographer eltham palace 041 Alex and Simons Civil Partnership at Eltham PalaceDisco fever

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wedding photographer eltham palace 046 Alex and Simons Civil Partnership at Eltham PalaceWow…what a venue!

As promised, more images from Simon and Alex’s Civil Partership at Eltham Palace over on Facebook.

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A few weeks back I got the chance to meet up again with Alex and Simon.  Their civil partnership is coming up in June at Eltham Palace.  A wonderful venue I can’t wait to get back to.  These guys have a real eye for detail so I can’t wait to see what they come up with in styling the wedding.  I’m guessing there may be a few more ‘details’ than normal with this one.

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There are some more on my Facebook Business Page.

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In keeping with the in joke I am here to present to you Pete and Phil’s Big Gay wedding.  As a Cain Manor photographer I’m keen to try new and interesting situations.  This wedding certainly didn’t let me down.  Of course, technically its not a wedding.  Its a civil partnership.  But here is what I can tell you about Pete and Phil.  I sat through many speeches and countless ceremonies and I have come across very few people who so clearly loved each other, with such conviction, caring and tenderness than I did at the WEDDING on Saturday at Cain Manor.  No BS, no exaggeration, no tall tales.  It was a wedding I was only too happy to say at the end “man…that was great”.

Of course, being a civil partnership there are some things which invariably will change.   In this case we had two Father of the Groom speeches.  We had two Groom speeches.  Despite having two Best Women, we didn’t get to enjoy a single speech from the lovely ladies.  What didn’t change?  The biggest NON change was the time it took both Pete and Phil to get ready.  Classically groomed and ready to go in under 15 minutes.  Nice!

Above all, their strong connection and love for each other cascaded from the top down.  Friends and family alike carried on with the warmth throughout the day.  A day won’t soon forget and provided they don’t send their album choices through on a Saturday afternoon (they know what I mean) then its one album I’m totally looking forward to designing.

A couple of links for you.

The venue:  Cain Manor part of the Bijou Venue Group
The florist: Emma Lappin
The amazing cupcakes: Crumbs and Doilies
The hottest saxophone quartet around: A Good Reed

As usual, there are more photos to view on Facebook.  In order to tag yourself (and I whole heartedly encourage you to do so) you need to ‘Like’ my Facebook Business Page (Facebook’s rules, not mine).  But what’s the worst that could happen except you get forced to look at outstanding, creative and emotional wedding photography every week.  Hardly a hardship!  A link to the Facebook page will appear at the end of this post…as well as a link to how you can get 20% off reprints for a limited time.

Finally…in the immortal words of Pete Bell.  “Tolerance and equality” — oh and “Big Gay Wedding”

cain manor wedding photos 001 Pete and Phils Big Gay Wedding at Cain ManorTo add a bit of balance, the first of my bookend Cain Manor photos

cain manor wedding photos 002 Pete and Phils Big Gay Wedding at Cain ManorSeriously…getting shoe shots of men’s black shoes is a PITA.  OK…so I found something I didn’t like :)

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cain manor wedding photos 004 Pete and Phils Big Gay Wedding at Cain Manor

cain manor wedding photos 005 Pete and Phils Big Gay Wedding at Cain ManorSymmetry…apart from the fact Phil ties one shoe before putting the other on…same as me.  Pete, on the hand…a rebel?

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cain manor wedding photos 007 Pete and Phils Big Gay Wedding at Cain ManorMore symmetry…right down to the hangers

cain manor wedding photos 008 Pete and Phils Big Gay Wedding at Cain Manor

cain manor wedding photos 009 Pete and Phils Big Gay Wedding at Cain Manor’twas the first time I heard it…they all shouted it…BIG GAY WEDDING!

cain manor wedding photos 010 Pete and Phils Big Gay Wedding at Cain ManorI kept getting the De Niro “I’m watchin’ you” from Meet the Parents from that kid

cain manor wedding photos 011 Pete and Phils Big Gay Wedding at Cain ManorThere’s something very street photography about this…not your typical wedding shot but something that I really like about it

cain manor wedding photos 012 Pete and Phils Big Gay Wedding at Cain ManorOh man…I’m back in heaven.  The ceremony room light at Cain Manor!  Yeehah!

cain manor wedding photos 014 Pete and Phils Big Gay Wedding at Cain Manor

cain manor wedding photos 015 Pete and Phils Big Gay Wedding at Cain ManorWhy couldn’t you just wear these shoes…heck of lot easier to photograph!

cain manor wedding photos 016 Pete and Phils Big Gay Wedding at Cain ManorAww…bless.

cain manor wedding photos 017 Pete and Phils Big Gay Wedding at Cain ManorDOPPLEGANGER….today its Simon Calder

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wedding photography cain manor 019 Pete and Phils Big Gay Wedding at Cain ManorKYLIE?

wedding photography cain manor 020 Pete and Phils Big Gay Wedding at Cain ManorKylie, Kylie, Kylie!

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wedding photography cain manor 023 Pete and Phils Big Gay Wedding at Cain ManorNext stop…prison for breaking an entering — or rather just entering an opening — either way I’m not entirely sure Cain wanted me to use this space

wedding photography cain manor 024 Pete and Phils Big Gay Wedding at Cain ManorNo Butch Cassidy, but two sunflower kids

wedding photography cain manor 025 Pete and Phils Big Gay Wedding at Cain Manor“Look through me”  — so they did

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wedding photography cain manor 032 Pete and Phils Big Gay Wedding at Cain ManorBest Wo-Men

wedding photography cain manor 0331 Pete and Phils Big Gay Wedding at Cain ManorThis almost warrants an animated GIF!

wedding photography cain manor 0341 Pete and Phils Big Gay Wedding at Cain ManorPete’s Mad Dad!

wedding photography cain manor 035 Pete and Phils Big Gay Wedding at Cain ManorNo need to shout!…ok, there was!

wedding photography cain manor 036 Pete and Phils Big Gay Wedding at Cain ManorThe bookend complete!

To be notified when all of the photos are available for viewing and to get a 20% discount on reprints, please get in touch.

If you would like to see more from Phil and Pete’s wedding, please visit my Facebook Business Page…don’t forget to tag yourself if you feel inclined.

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The New Year was only 2 days old but it didn’t mean I had to wait long for the first wedding of the year.  This wedding, however, was going to be different.  First, it was in Wetherby — and for those who are geographically challenged think Leeds and drive a little further on.  The home of Geoffrey Boycott and those things called puddings (Yorkshire) that don’t taste sweet at all.  It was different in that I went up accompanied by my wife and we were both guests.  The reason being that Jo and Nicola went to school together (although I don’t know how long they’ve known each other)…so it was a working wedding (for me at least) and one I’ve been hoping to get the chance to shoot for years.  Why?  Well, you might want to re-read the title…notice that Jo has no ‘e’.  This is because Jo is a Joanna and this was Joanna and Victoria’s civil commitment but I just call it a wedding (as did everyone else).  Two brides, twice the fun — right?

I could bore you with loads of stories like how they met, my ‘connecting the dots’ at dinner a few years back, Jo’s fabulous sense of humour, Vicki’s Northern charm and rational thinking…but I won’t.  My wife would kill me.

yorkshire wedding photographer 0037 Yorkshire Wedding Photographer   Vicki and JoWindow dressing

yorkshire wedding photographer 0036 Yorkshire Wedding Photographer   Vicki and JoYou need a bit of context.  Jo’s sister took up flower arranging.  She does it for charity and took on the task of all the flowers for a wedding some 220 miles from home.  Brave…yes.  I happened upon her room (or should I call it a studio) and found the table she spent countless hours finalizing everything.  I thought it told a compelling story.

yorkshire wedding photographer 0035 Yorkshire Wedding Photographer   Vicki and JoJo’s mum does her favourite Trackers routine (only a few people will get that)

yorkshire wedding photographer 0034 Yorkshire Wedding Photographer   Vicki and JoMeet Vicki (left) with her Best Woman and mini Bridesmaid

yorkshire wedding photographer 0033 Yorkshire Wedding Photographer   Vicki and JoMakeup flash

yorkshire wedding photographer 0032 Yorkshire Wedding Photographer   Vicki and JoMilo…Jo and Vicki’s dog

yorkshire wedding photographer 0031 Yorkshire Wedding Photographer   Vicki and JoJo finalises her speech – AGAIN!

yorkshire wedding photographer 0030 Yorkshire Wedding Photographer   Vicki and JoSpot the Yorkshireman…surely the half consumed pint long before the Bride is dressed may be a clue!

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yorkshire wedding photographer 0026 Yorkshire Wedding Photographer   Vicki and JoJo waits around the corner…she was keen to NOT see Vicki before she came down the aisle

yorkshire wedding photographer 0024 Yorkshire Wedding Photographer   Vicki and JoVicki comes close to losing her head

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yorkshire wedding photographer 0022 Yorkshire Wedding Photographer   Vicki and JoHere come (one of) the Bride(s)

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yorkshire wedding photographer 0018 Yorkshire Wedding Photographer   Vicki and Jo

yorkshire wedding photographer 0017 Yorkshire Wedding Photographer   Vicki and JoThat’s a sight you don’t see very often….SNOW!

yorkshire wedding photographer 0016 Yorkshire Wedding Photographer   Vicki and Jo…and that’s a sight you just don’t want to see very often! :)

yorkshire wedding photographer 0015 Yorkshire Wedding Photographer   Vicki and Jo

yorkshire wedding photographer 0014 Yorkshire Wedding Photographer   Vicki and JoA good Yorkshire lass (aka, Vicki’s mum)

yorkshire wedding photographer 0013 Yorkshire Wedding Photographer   Vicki and JoThe best thing was you got TWO best woman’s speeches

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yorkshire wedding photographer 0011 Yorkshire Wedding Photographer   Vicki and JoLe Fleur Extraordinare

yorkshire wedding photographer 0010 Yorkshire Wedding Photographer   Vicki and JoCharlotte found it easy speaking about Jo in the first person with this cleverly designed Jo mask

yorkshire wedding photographer 0009 Yorkshire Wedding Photographer   Vicki and JoSherriff Creswell (x2)

yorkshire wedding photographer 0008 Yorkshire Wedding Photographer   Vicki and JoSadly Debbie’s tash just looks like she had too much milk — ah bless, my wife is so gorgeous (far left)

yorkshire wedding photographer 0007 Yorkshire Wedding Photographer   Vicki and JoWell…they call her Bushy…and now I think i know why!

yorkshire wedding photographer 0006 Yorkshire Wedding Photographer   Vicki and JoDont mention ze whar!

yorkshire wedding photographer 0005 Yorkshire Wedding Photographer   Vicki and JoLou delights us with some groovy tunes…

yorkshire wedding photographer 0004 Yorkshire Wedding Photographer   Vicki and Jo..which you can see Nicola enjoyed a bit TOO much…

yorkshire wedding photographer 0003 Yorkshire Wedding Photographer   Vicki and Jo…whilst Jo learned just how much of push-over the DJ really was

yorkshire wedding photographer 0001 Yorkshire Wedding Photographer   Vicki and Jo..silver lining….

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