After 4 weddings in a few short weeks at Gate Street barn it was time to say farewell for a few months. But never wanting to go out in a whimper I put it all into Laura and Paul’s wedding a couple of weeks ago…that’s not to say I don’t put my all into every wedding its just in this bit of prose it sounded (in the words of Ali G) “well cool”. For a May wedding I must admit that it was a little disappointing to have such cool temperatures (no pun intended). Add a little drizzle and this wedding could have been in March strictly speaking. But you know what. Weather is such a small part of a real wedding. Seriously. Its all about people, interaction, relationships, eye contact, fun and good spirits. Weather has very little to do with the core of what its all about…yet everyone spends the days before a wedding glued to their weather app. Just sayin’.
Laura and Paul and two genuine down to earth people with such charm they nearly knock you over with it all. She’s so unassuming and sincere and he a laugh that makes you feel at ease, as if the only person in his world at that moment is you. I love couples like that. I’m so lucky to have so many. The wedding was just fantastic. So proud to be part of it!
I want you to look at the images below. But I also want you to see more. So at the end of these images is a link to a Facebook gallery of more. So scroll and click after you’ve enjoyed more of witless banter.

Just so there was never any doubt


Nice little catch I only saw by accident…I’m willing to admit that
Apparently you can never have enough eyelashes




1, 2, 3 o’clock, 4 o’clock ROCK!

Ladies loooove the iPhone





It didn’t work….OR did it? Hmmmm

Far better than variable speed limit signs






Seriously…?


I see Paul was quick enough to cover his drink!

Guests…apparently rather important at this shindigs



A minute before I was lectured by the chef telling what a horrible location it was…I made no comment about the beef

He sure is MY rock of ages

Wet weather option number 1

Yes…there are ACTUALLY 4 people in this photo

Devil


Paul has either wowed his new mother in law…or completely ruined it



Paul demonstrates how he at first failed day 1 of proctology school

{that stinks} (geddit)


Still sober (just)

(sung to the tune of Rocky Horror’s “Time Warp”) “First…a pic to the left”…..

….”and basically the same pic to the righ-igh-ight”….

….”put your knife in the cake….and then give you wife a great big frigh-igh-ight”….

…”you do the pelvic thrust”….
…”and watch the guests go insan-an-an-e … let’s do the time warp again!”
As promised…you can find more image on my facebook business page. Apparently the first person to click on over gets a massive pat on the back from someone at some point real soon. So don’t miss seeing some more of Laura and Paul’s Gate Street wedding of Facebook!
Why is that I went to a wedding in Surrey at the end of March and there were more Welsh there than my wedding in Caephilly Castle…which, is actually IN Wales. Maybe I’m being too much of a stereotype and deciding that in order to be Welsh you have to have an accent. Which is wrong as one of my best mates is from Wales and has a Surrey accent. I digress.
So. It was time to shoot Nikki and Brett’s wedding. Loyal blog followers will now that I mentioned this wedding last week. Brett marries Nikki. Nikki is Mark’s sister. Mark marries Donna. Donna is Ben’s sister. Ben marries Helen. Helen is Laura’s Bridemaid. Laura marries Leigh. I was there for all of it. You need a full on forensic mapping to work this all out. Keep at it…it will all come to you.
So Wales. Yes, I do have familial connection being of Welsh blood myself. I do love it there. The hills, the sea, the M4. In the classic words of Gavin and Stacey….its ‘tidy’. Newport (location for the preparations at the luxurious Celtic Manor Hotel) is just across the bridge with Caephilly a few miles further on. This was easily the closest Welsh wedding I’ve shot. Let’s be honest, its a 5 iron from England. But enough dribble. This is all about Brett and Nikki. I first met Brett a few years ago when I did full on family shoot Nikki’s family in London. Somehow I was convinced his name was Greg. After screwing that up too many times I opted for ‘Gret’. It stuck. It was early enough in their relationship to never know if I’d see him again. So last March when I got the call from Nikki about booking me for the wedding I was delighted for them both. Nikki for finding Mr Right and ‘Gret’ for enduring the endless one liners dished out by me, Kieron (Nikki’s Dad) and Mark (Nikki’s brother). Who knew that the reason he could take the pressure was the fact that ‘Gret’s own Dad was the king of one liners, slapstick and just about every comedy paradigm going. It did take me half the day to realise that the Best Man was actually Brett’s father. That’s a compliment BTW.
My the sun did shine. The castle was just lovely. A real delight to work in and to be a part of.

Not exactly rugby boots

Family heirloom


Just like my curls…honest



Those damn PPI calls

Not a typical guest arrival!





Dad’s to the left of me, Dad’s to the right (Brett’s best man was his Dad)




The triangle of doom!

Photo by Darren


Photo by Darren


I just love those village hall venues





Bros and Sos

Photo by Darren

Photo by Darren


Eventually it all got a bit mushy!







If you want to see a few more go to my Facebook Business page to see more from Nikki and Brett’s Caephilly Castle wedding
One of the principles I’ve always worked on was that every wedding gets blogged. Its my job as a professional to bring every wedding to life for both the couple and you, the viewer (obvious exceptions are those couples that don’t want it and I always respect their wishes). However, sometimes life gets in the way and for a whole host of reasons I missed out a few. You have to believe me when I say that it was never a personal thing. Never could this be more true than in the case of Lindsay and Jonny. The fact that they have already taken delivery of their album should help show you how late I am with this. But this was (and still is) one of the most special weddings I’ve ever shot.
It has nothing to do with the amazing weather, the absolutely gorgeous Bride, the tremendous location or the fact there was free ice cream. It does, however, have to do with the Circle of Life style connection I have with Lindsay’s sister Laura. We start with Laura and Leigh. Laura’s Bridesmaid Helen and Ben. Ben’s sister Donna and Mark. Mark’s sister Nikki and Brett (a wedding I shot a few weeks ago). But let’s not forget Helen’s friend Emma and David. Or Laura’s friend Amy and Miles. Then Amy’s friend Beth and Stefan (a wedding I’ll shoot later this year). I have this really uneasy feeling there is another one in there somewhere its just sometimes hard to remember the forensic lines that draw it all together. So to be honoured enough to shoot Laura’s sister Lindsay and Jonny’s wedding. Well, what a delight.
As such this is going to be a mammoth post. Enjoy it. I did.





I shot his wedding…the one on the left that is






“She’s once…twice….thre–no just twice…a lady”


LausieB




First time seeing the dress!

Still loving it…

and still






I shot their wedding…the parents that is































oh yeah…shot their wedding too



That me…there in black. These are my some of my delightful customers!














Sweet Caroline!!!! Dat dah duh (now I dare you to get that song out of your head .. bahahahahaha)
Gosh it seems so long ago. I mean, back then it was cold, damp and the threat of Spring was nowhere to be found. Wait a minute!
So it wasn’t that long ago I guess. This is Caroline (dat dah duh) and Adam (no clever song reference available) at Barnett Hill, a delightful venue on the edge of the Surrey Hills (which will mean quite a lot to mountain bikers in the South). This wedding will be famous for me as being one of only a handful of weddings where I had to do family groups inside. Yes, it was that cold. But as rooms go for indoor formals I’ll take it.
These guys are a delightful couple who are perfectly suited. Caroline and Adam’s vows, written by themselves, were truly inspiring. I can’t say I didn’t get a little bit humid in the eye line listening to them. It was refreshing to hear something unique. This coming after a Humanist ceremony the day before where the same thing happened. Its nice to see a bit of the couple in there and not just the legal bits.
They also had a first and you know I love firsts. Sadly the Best Man couldn’t be there. Living in Cyprus it became impossible for him to travel during the financial crisis affecting withdrawals and other day to day activities. But in this modern world he was able to record his speech (inclusive of balloon faces of Caroline and Adam) and have it shipped over via the interweb for viewing by the rest of the wedding. Genius!
I also got the pleasure of working with Oli (and Chris) from Storybook Films. A delightful duo who, for videographers, smell rather nice. I do recommend a gander at the website.
There will be more images on my Facebook Business Page. Have a gander down there and at the end you will find the link. Happy viewing!







Cup-a-soup…lunch for nervous Bride!














An interesting place for your first married barney














The consequences of playing Mambo Number 5 on the guest led iPod DJ!


And A Few From Darren







As promised there are more images on my Facebook Business Page….you can find it here
It was the best of times. It was the..well..best of times. It was just two times on different days. To make it even more interesting, it ain’t done yet. Yes, this is the many weddings of Jen and Anjohn. So it is that if you want to get married on Good Friday then you’re a wee bit stuffed. Solution. Get married at the registry office on Thursday then have a humanist ceremony on Friday. And if your family is from Bangladesh why not have another ceremony in 6 weeks time. If you’re not following as close as you should then let me spell it out to you. That is exactly what we did and will do.
So last Thursday I made my way to the registry office just outside of Guildford town centre. Its actually a place that has some meaning to me. It was there that I shot my very first wedding back in 2004. Last week just like in 2004 it was a straight forward affair. This time 15 guests made their way into the small ceremony room to complete to legal bits before we all made our way to Cote in Guildford for a family meal. One potential pitfall of this plan is that you may find yourself having such a good time that you fail to notice your watch and discover you are an hour late for your Humanist ceremony rehearsal (which, I have to say is lovely, personal and wholesome but in my humble opinion not in need of a rehearsal). Its all something to tell the grandkids.
Waking up the day after the, well, afternoon before is all bit peculiar. Turning up and not only knowing the couple in your viewfinder but also knowing you just shot a wedding with them the day before is a unique prospect. It was great. Like old times I tell you. The good part is that this day would be a completely different set of parameters. A joint bridal and groom(al) prep at Jen and Anjohns in Guildford then off to Gate Street Barn. Being a) married and b) not one to have the world staring at you as you enter a room meant that the start of this ceremony would be very different. A bit of meet and greet before the ceremony was a delightful difference for me. I loved it. Of course the ceremony was unique (as in a Humanist ceremony its all about the couple – yay!) but also I saw something I hadn’t seen before. I’m not sure if its a tradition of the Humanist or Anjohn’s Bangladeshi heritage or simple somerhing they thought of themselves, but the weddings rings, which the day before were given to form the legal part of their marriage, were today taken off, bound together and at a point in the ceremony passed around to every guest to hold, see, rub and if so inclined pray. It was interesting to see how some simply passed it on, some were delighted by the shine and a few seemed to pass on good vibes in both secular and non secular ways.
The last surprise for everyone was the table layout. Two long tables split the barn bringing a village festival feel to an amazing day. I can’t wait until May for the last part of wedding trio!
Normally I post a link to even more images on my Facebook business page. An error in logistics (IOW I’m a bonehead) means that I won’t be able to upload that until Monday. So, enjoy this longer than usual blog post and I’ll will fill you in on the fuller Facebook upload next week!
First – Guildford Registry Wedding
Lookie here
“no seriously…I’ve met a real live Hobbit. It was THIS tall”
I’m sure I’ve seen that guy on The West Wing
On reflection this is a black and white shot. Love the Registrar.

Storytelling at 0.3 of a meter


I have no idea who that is…but she kept jumping over a parking post so I photographed it
Part 2 – Good Friday
It would later be revealed why the chair I used to photograph the shoes was so important

The A-Team’s Hannibal would have proud…and even more pleased as it all came together






Again…I didn’t know at the time but when the light shone almost exclusively on the necklace I was drawn. It turned out to be the last Christmas gift Jen’s mum gave her. You tell me there’s no such thing as karma or the universe
Apparently earrings are more difficult than first thought
This was just happenstance…
Jen in the chair her mother made
The benefit of getting ready together….actually I lied a bit. A big reveal comes later but I will do a whole blog post on that later.



That was just the coolest thing…
She loves that jacket…honest






Passing around the rings



I mean REALLY loves that jacket!




Don’t deny Jen…it worked didn’t it! :)

Wow!….and more wow!




I couldn’t seem to get ‘Cab’ to smile despite he’d spent the last two days laughing away!
Big appetite
Checking the job dossier from Jen

Alleged product found in Anjohn’s medicine cabinet







As I mentioned…a link to more Facebook images on Monday.
Holy cow…its Spring. Thing is someone forgot to tell Mother Nature. Quite honestly, I happily did family groups outside in February. No one complained. It was fresh not cold. Now that its the end of March you would think we would optimistic for warmer weather. Apparently on the same day last year it was 21 degrees (that’s Celsius). So quite how a year passes and the high was around 2. Seriously. I guess on the plus side it was dry even if it was too cold for anyone to really enjoy the outside. On the plus side I still the family groups outside and it took about 30% less time than normal. Amazing what freezing your dewberries off will do to inspire folks to get a move on.
Yes, this was Saturday’s wedding of Steven and Sarah at the glorious, beautiful and internally warm Gate Street Barn (quite frankly one of Surrey’s finest wedding venues). Despite working at Gate Street many many times it was still a first in staying with the Bride (aka Sarah) in the Bride’s room. Small yet functional. But it meant no traveling and no getting cold outside. Sarah and Steven are a delightfully sweet couple. Calm yet spirited, thoughtful yet spontaneous. A delightful combination of charm, personality and wit that makes for such an enjoyable day for me (and Darren). We really do enjoy being part of something so sincere and honest. It makes you feel like a part of something real not fabricated. Thank you to Sarah and Steven for having us along.
Below is a selection of images. Afterwards I’ll be posting a link to more images which you can view on my Facebook business page. So gander, read, enjoy and at the end is a link for more.
Seriously…how gorgeous is that
The main perk of getting ready in the barn
CurlyWurly

Mum’s broach
Small mirror, big image

Here comes the … Dad
Glasses on my head…cool don’t you think
Today’s doppleganger is the Best Man and Brother of Steven…I give you Mark Wahlberg (or Dirk as I called him)
…in a veiled way of carrying on the Dirk reference


Marky Mark is enjoying it as well!




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That kid is adorable!




Its true…country roads really do take you home!


Gravity is no match!





A big warm bun and huge hunk of meat (although this isn’t a Cheeseburger in Paradise)

Chris from Chess has some new LED lights. Me like.
I have no idea
I love the couple in the middle…I’m don’t read minds but I’m guessing it went something like this “W….T….F”
Time for me to stick to my word and give you that link to the book of Faces and my business page where you can find about 100 images from Steven and Sarah’s Gate Street Barn wedding on Facebook.
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